cat rescue

older tails (2)

A couple of weeks ago I was at work when one of my lovely rescue friends messaged me.  Her gorgeous cat was  an inpatient at her vets, and of course she’d been visiting him regularly.  She’d seen an older stray cat there who had been brought in in quite a state about a week previously, and was apparently blind.  Sadly, unclaimed, she was going to be put to sleep that afternoon.

Knowing that we’re full, and stressed, and that blind and poorly cats cost a lot to sort out, and aren’t going to be easy to rehome, I tried to focus on work and put her out of my mind ….

not listening

That strategy worked well ….. for about 20 seconds.   After that I simply couldn’t concentrate on work thinking about poor little Gertie being eased to rainbow bridge just because no one was claiming her.  Frantically googling for any useful information about blind cats in between appointments, and wondering how on earth we might be able to manage her … I took a leap of faith/hope/insanity and agreed to pick her up from the vets on my way home.

I’m not entirely sure what I had in mind when I went to collect her.  People laugh at me for having a cat carrier in the car “just in case” …. but it pays off on occasions like these.   I was kind of expecting a scruffy old lady ….. and could hardly believe it when they pointed to a very very pretty girlie.   We arrived home and I set up a crate for her … wondering still if she would manage to find her food and litter tray.

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It proved to be very little trouble to find her food, or her tray, or the cuddles that she obviously loved.  The following day we went off to see Dr Clare.  Poor Gertie walked round the consulting room in circles and eventually walked into the wall.   Clare confirmed that one eye had a detached retina, the other lots of burst blood vessels … but her health otherwise apparently ok.   Then came the surprise.  We were told that this sort of blindness can be the result of high blood pressure …. and if it is, and it’s treated, some sight can be regained!

Gertie arrives3Gertie stayed overnight at the surgery to have her blood pressure checked.   The White Coat Syndrome is very evident in cats, so we needed to allow her time to settle and then have her bp checked a few times the following day to get an accurate picture.   Next day arrived, and so did the news that Gertie had a very high bp.  She started on some medication.   It always surprises me when cats and humans share their meds …. we’re really not such different species after all … human script for Istin … though cut into small pieces for feline.

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The very day after Gert started the meds I thought I saw a difference in her eyes.   Not such huge wide pupils.  I thought it may be wishful thinking, or that I’d not remembered correctly how they’d been when she first arrived.  However, we went back to see Dr Tim last week.   He confirmed that her pupils were reacting to light and that the damage behind them didn’t look so bad.

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We went away with a urine sample kit as part of the plan to establish whether it was primary hypertension, or whether there were underlying issues with her kidneys.   Despite the fact that she’s done enormous projectile pees each time she’s been put in a cat carrier, she’s been reluctant to produce a sample at a time we’ve been available to take it to the vet/the vet has been open.  We finally got it there on Friday evening, and are awaiting the results.   Whatever they reveal, its clear that she’s able to see more than she could and that she doesn’t need to be in a crate any longer.

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older tails (1)

We currently have one of the rescue rooms set aside for a couple of older cats.

(1) You may remember Maya, who arrived with us in April.  She was sooo poorly when she got here and had Max and his stillborn sister prematurely.  Our vet thinks she must be about 10 years old …… its difficult to tell when she’s had a hard life and doesn’t have any teeth.   It’s heartbreaking to think how she must have lived, probably fending for herself a lot of her life, most likely pregnant or nursing babies almost the entire time.   She was in season again only a week or so after little Max died.

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She’s now been spayed and chipped and is physically well, so we’ve started the difficult journey of working out what’s best for her future.  Ideally she’d make some miraculous turn around like our lovely Jack did, and settle herself into a loving furever home.  It’s not happening that way though ….. she’s very slow to gain any trust.  We make some tiny break throughs …..

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For a supposedly older cat, Maya is surprisingly interested in toys, especially quite noisy toys, so the ball rolling through the track or rattling over the laminate is a real hit. ……. so long as she’s under the desk …. she won’t come any closer.

After her op we kept her in a crate in the hope that it would enable her to gain confidence.  Trying using food to gain her trust ….. little and often …. rewards of tuna ……

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Again ….. progress is slow.   She loves Uncle Bob’s igloo and spends most of her time in there.  Occasionally a paw will swipe out, grab what she wants ….. and drag it back into the cave.

Do we keep trying?  Hope for a foster home that can give her the space/time to gain confidence?  Try to find an outdoor home for her?  It seems so hard after all she’s been through already ……… none of the choices seem good …….. keeping her indoors and anxious doesn’t feel right …… but homing her outdoors doesn’t seem great either when she’s an older girl.  There’s a sweetness about her that makes it hard to just give up on her.

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Being a mum

Our Betty is pretty clearly a first time mum ….. the look of shock on her face as she went into labour said it all.    She gave birth to them and cleaned them and sorted them out, but then quietly confided in me that she hadn’t really been looking to start a family yet.  She’s only young herself and was hoping to go to college and follow her dream of studying creative arts.

Her first challenge was to be able to get into the bed with all 5 of them without sitting on one of them.  She’d clamber in, settle herself down only to find one or two of them squealing and trying to wriggle out from under her.  Standing up and weighing up the situation, she’d turn round a bit, then settle down again, this time squashing the other kits.  She was clearly  flummoxed by it and decided the best plan was to stay out the bed most of the time, and just pop in occasionally to feed … but stay sitting up …so she didn’t crush anyone.

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I was a little concerned because when I went into her bedroom she was never with the kits.   Nevertheless, they were always clean (I imagined her diving in with a handful of baby wipes, then making a swift exit),  were clearly growing, and mostly seemed contented and sleeping.  Nothing really to trigger a referral to Kitten Protection.

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If I’ve picked the kits up she’s had a quick look to make sure they’re ok and then got on with eating her supper.  It’s ok that she’s not a mumsy sort of mum.  In my limited experience I’ve found that the mums who start by being quite detached often go on to care for and feed their kits quite a long while after the more involved mums have started packing the kittens sandwiches in a map and showing them the door.

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This evening was quite different.  They’ve opened their eyes, but one eye on a ginger kit and another on black kit was still glued together.  I got some cooled boiled water and cotton pads and went in to bathe their eyes.  Betty was on my case, wanting to know what evidence there was that this was helpful, what possible side effects there could be, exactly what my future care plan was going to be.   I explained that a possible side effect was that the kitten could have a damp head for a few  minutes, and that we may be repeating the treatment in the morning.  Bless her.

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Happier tails

It’s been a relief this last week to have a happier tail of kittens to tell.   Little stray, Betty, arrived with us about three weeks ago.  Some lovely caring young women had found her stray in their garden and offered temporary shelter, then got her a place at 8 Lives.   As ever we were full, but knowing that Jack was off to his smart new home in a few days time, and the weather forecast was pretty poor, we settled her into the conservatory and hoped she’d hang on to her kits until Jack was in his new home and Betty could have his bedroom.

trying to get help before coming into rescue

trying to get help before coming into rescue

It’s possible that we suggested hanging on to her kits a little too strongly, as she moved into Jack’s freshly vacated bedroom and nearly a week later still hadn’t given birth.   The nightmare of Maya and her kits, and tails from other rescue friends about their young rescue cats having birth problems and needing C sections, sent us running off to see Dr Alistair.   He reassured us that apart from a few ear mites and worms, all was well and the babies would be along shortly.  Distressingly the products for worms and ear mites can’t be safely used in pregnancy, so we’d had to stand helplessly by while poor Bet clawed at her ears.

Having checked on Bet very regularly since she arrived, it was clear that last Saturday morning something was different.   She was in her little crib and quite flustered.  I’m sure she’s a first time mum – the look of confusion and pain on her face was heart breaking.  She purred a lot, and then growled, and then cried with pain … and of course glared at me thinking I was causing it.   It was a scary few moments, flashbacks to the trauma of Chi’s kittens, phone clutched in hand with vet on speed dial …. thank goodness it was Saturday morning and I was home and vets was open.

Moments later a little ginger body had arrived and was being cleaned up.  His little cries brought back the birth of Max, still so recent.  Thankfully Betty was in a much better position to care for her kits than Maya had been.  Shortly afterwards, a little more growling, and a little black and white person entered the world.   All cleaned up and sorted.    I was expecting more kits, and possibly an odd number given Bet’s size and shape.  However after a couple of hours nothing else had happened and I took my chance to go get some lunch.

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first two babies

Returning about half an hour later, I heard Betty growling as I opened the door.   My first thought was that despite being sweet and friendly up to this point, she’d become very protective over her kits.   When I saw her it was clear they were more growls of pain … and very soon a little black kit made his debut, followed very swiftly by another black and white kit.   Things settled down.  All cleaned up, kits fluffed up (which made me realised just how prem Max must have been).   So I was right that she had more than two kits, but wrong about the odd number.  Sat for a long while, chatting to her and admiring them, feeding her in her bed so she didn’t have to get up and leave them.   Then went to fetch some clean bedding …. and we sat a while again, just total awe at how gorgeous and tiny and perfect they all were.  I explained what I wanted to do, about moving them a little so I could put new bedding in, but Bet laid down again on the dirty bedding, so I waited.  More growling ….. and my conviction that we were having an odd number of kits was proved correct as a tiny pale ginger kit slipped into the world.

full set of kits

full set of kits

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sad tails (2)

So, after a night with no sleep we thought hearing that first cry might be an auditory hallucination, or a dream, or a miracle, and left us a bit dazed.   The second cry sent us scrambling into action.   The second kit had clearly gone to the bridge though her presence relieved the fear that there were unborn babes trapped inside Maya.   However the dark little head we’d seen the previous night started squirming and squeaking at our touch.   We bundled him up in fleeces and with a little wheat bag, and with one arm free, began re-making formula.

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Had the heartbreaking job of burying Minim, and really not being sure how closed to leave her grave in case her brother needed to join her soon. We got a little formula into the tiny person who came to be known as Max, but it was hard to keep him warm and in the end we rushed down to the vets for help. Lovely nurse Lauren carried him around and got him warm. It dawned on us that the reason he wasn’t drying out and fluffing up like most new born kits was that he was really rather premature. He had a little fur on his back, but his front was quite naked, and his arms and legs almost translucent.

For the next 48 hours we lived and breathed little Max. Tiny tiny amounts of formula going into him, almost constant cuddles to keep him warm, and very gentle attempts to toilet him. When we had to take little Niki to her new home, our amazing child-proofer Erin and her mun Sally looked after him. The residents got on board and either through concern, cussedness or curiosity got seriously involved.

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On Sunday 1pm nurse Rosy came from the vets to check up on him … no charge, just because she cares, because she’s part of an amazing vet surgery. Max was well hydrated and despite being tiny and premmy he was doing pretty well. We made plans about day care for when I went back to work on Tuesday. It’s a weird feeling – part of me fears he won’t survive the next half hour, part of me has to worry about how to manage his care for the rest of the week.

max before 8am feed

Sally & Erin popped round in the afternoon ….. with cake. It was at that point I realised I’d not eaten since Friday evening and not had a drink since I picked Max up from Sal’s on Saturday evening. So at 3pm, Sal and Erin took Max to their’s to give me a break. Away from the anxiety of every breath of Max I had a blissful couple of hours sleep. They texted me at 5pm because he was restless and mouthing for his bottle. I scurried round to collect him,

max at 2am feed

The little guy had a good feed at 5:30 and after that I spent some time on facebook looking for more expert advice about hand rearing premmy kittens, or getting surrogate mother. Had a couple of options in the pipeline, though they would have involved a bit of a road trip for us. At 7pm Max wasn’t so interested in his feed. He’d been asleep and not shouting for food, so I wrapped him up with his fleece and wheatie bag and we settled down for cuddles until he woke up properly for a feed.

little max

Cuddling, and typing one hand on facebook to sort out our next move, I checked down yet again on Max …….

max gone to the bridge

My heart was broken ……. he’d slipped to the bridge without a word.   There’s nothing quite like the pain of a dead baby in your arms.  We’re a week on as I’m writing this, in some ways the focus has changed as we have a new pregnant kit with us, but the agony of losing this babe will be raw for a long while to come.

max at the bridge

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sad tails (1)

Maya, our lovely little Lancashire Lass had such a traumatic arrival here that we weren’t surprised she hid away at first and didn’t want to eat.  However, when she’d been here a few days and still hadn’t eaten we started to get really rather concerned and despite not wanting to put her through the distress of going back in a carrier and off to the vet, it clearly had to happen.  Conveniently Sooty had a review appointment booked with Dr Tim for Monday afternoon and said that if Maya was feeling poorly he’d be happy to let her have his slot.

maya before going to vet

Sooty isn’t always the most amenable patient, but Maya topped any challenge Sooty could present.   Although a mixture of her feeling poorly and my determination to get her to the vet had got her into the carrier, that didn’t mean she was willing to be examined once we arrived.   One option with a terrified cat who can’t be examined is to give a sedative, but this could pose a risk to her unborn kits.   However, she was clearly unwell and doing nothing wasn’t an option.   At the end of the day Maya had to take priority over any unborn kits (there was even a possibility that her swollen tummy wasn’t due to pregnancy) but just maybe we could save them all.  She had an anti biotic injection and a follow up appointment in two days for if she was feeling no better.

We came home hopeful, but Maya resolutely turned away from the offer of any food.  We’d been through the full repertoire: tuna, roast chicken, fresh cooked fish, scrambled egg, sardines, cheese, boiled ham, all manner of treats ….. and returned to the vets on Wednesday evening, at which point they admitted her.  She had some sedation, a scan which showed two kitten heartbeats inside her, a mouth with just one remaining tooth, tests which showed an infection and not surprisingly serious dehydration.  She was put on a drip and anti biotics and thankfully started to improve.  Despite the lack of teeth she began to eat to olympic standard and was clearly feeling much better.

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We collected her from the vet about 6pm Friday evening – delighted that she came home and started eating, and had her anti biotic wrapped in some sardine.   I went off to feed and cuddle Jack for a while and when I returned she’d given birth.  I could just see one tiny dark kitten head near her, squawking for attention.  It was immediately clear that things weren’t quite right though … there’s normally one heck of a lot of purring going on at this stage ……. but there was nothing, other than the odd squeak from a kitten who wasn’t  getting the attention he needed.    So then another dilemma ….. I want to make sure the kitten is ok but Maya is afraid of people and maybe by my staying around its making it worse and less likely that she’ll take care of the little one.  I keep popping in to see how things are going, no sign of other kittens …… the vet said he saw at least 2 kitten heart beats …… where is the other kitten?  stuck inside her?  stopping her from being able to care for the little one who is already born?   Nearly 1am and I’m on the phone to another rescue friend with a lot more experience and decide watchful waiting is perhaps best option.  Maya is curled up near the kitten, asleep with her head on the placenta and completely ignoring him.  About 3am I make up some kitten formula, sterilize the bottles and go into her room with the intention of ‘snatching’ the kitten and starting to feed him.   He’s snuggled in the curl of her tail however and at least warm and safe near mum.  If I take him and then he smells of me, and she rejects him, he’s going to have a real uphill struggle.  I sit and watch them for a long while, neither appear in great distress and I decide to leave them be.

I crawl to bed and sleep the troubled sleep of a foster mum out of her depth.  I dream I take them somewhere and whilst I’m explaining to someone about the second kitten heartbeat and wondering where kit 2 is, Maya produces another 26 kittens in a wide variety of shapes and sizes …. one is bright blue, very fluffy and the size of Jango, another is green and gummy and resembles Ganesh, they become mixed up with the kittens in the home we visit and it turns into typical anxiety dream of trying to collect them all together into the carrier to leave.  It’s now 5am.

psychadelic kitten

At 7am I go back into Maya’s room to find she’s vacated the kitten box and is in another little bed.  The little kitten I’d seen the previous night, and another kit lie still and cold in the box.   Neither have been detached from their placenta.  I’m exhausted and so so sad.  I put food out for Maya, and crawl downstairs for coffee before I can face burying the babies.   After tears and coffee I throw away the formula I’d made up in the night and start packing away the bottles, return to Maya, sorting out crushing her tablet and wrapping it in sardine.  I’m exhausted, the tablet shatters on the floor, I kneel down to look for it and I hear a kitten cry.

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Maya – a tangled start to a new tail

We left the last update with an empty room vacated by Molly – who incidentally is having a very purry time now – awaiting the mystery of who may be the next arrival.

Last Tuesday I was at work when my phone buzzed, tagged by a friend on a national “Cats in Danger” facebook page.  A stray tabby cat had been living in a shed over in Lancashire for several months, fed by someone who cared about her but was unable to take her in.  It had recently become apparent that she was very pregnant.

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Snatching time between seeing patients and struggling with a poor internet connection, I was eventually in contact with the lady who was helping her.   We exchanged a few messages, agreed to meet part way between Darwen and Sheffield to share the transport time and costs.  I said I could meet her either that day (Tuesday)  or Wednesday after work, she said Wednesday was better because she didn’t have a dog sitter.

maya before in rescue

living rough

I came home and set about making the empty room into a maternity unit, and generally cleaning and tidying and making sure everything I might have put off to the following day was done as there would be no spare time on Wednesday if I had to go to collect puss cat after work.   The lady who was doing the first part of the journey messaged me to say she’d sorted out a dog sitter and would now work out the route and a midway point for us to meet.  I settled down with a glass of wine, enjoying having a relaxing evening knowing that there would be no chill time the following evening, working all day and then rushing half way to Darwen to meet an anxious cat.   We exchanged a few messages and agreed on a service station on the M62 as the meeting place.  A little while passed,  I sorted out the usual collection of emails from people wanting to adopt and a lot more from people wanting the rescue to take cats in, and poured myself another glass of wine.   Messaged the lady again about times to meet – I could head straight up to the M62 after work the next day, but that would be in the rush hour and the cats back at home wouldn’t have been fed, or I could go home and feed them and come up a little later.   Her response was the last thing I expected to hear:

“I’m here now …… just getting a coffee”

Reading back over our messages it was clear how when we were both rushing and multi tasking and didn’t know each other, she had thought that saying she had a dog sitter meant that we had changed the plan to meet that same night, and I had continued in the belief that we were meeting the following night.

It was 10pm, she was in the middle of nowhere with a heavily pregnant and terrified cat, I was home in my pyjamas with a couple of glasses of wine on board.   Plan B of this poor lady bringing Maya all the way here was put into place.  We thought it would take her another hour to get here.    However 11pm went by, and then midnight and there was no sign of them and no further messages.   At 1am I went to bed ……… wondering what on earth was happening but unable to contact anyone and aware I had to be up at 6am for work.  At 2am the door bell rang.   The resident cats flew up in the air in horror and went into “OMG she must be going on holiday ……….. that’s the only reason the human gets out of bed at this time of night” mode.   Maya’s poor chauffeur had been lost in a nightmare mess of roadworks around Leeds and going round in circles for hours until her phone battery died.

just arrived & very scared

just arrived & very scared

So 2:30am saw us drinking coffee, charging the phone, plotting a return route to Lancashire that gave Leeds a seriously wide berth ….. and coaxing Maya out of her carrier.    3am saw me lying in bed, shell shocked and not quite able to process what had just happened, 4am was pretty much the same, as was 5am.  At 6am the alarm went off and I set off for another day’s work.

With thanks to Marianne who braved this journey and the one home over snake pass at 4am.

 

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things change

We had a really stressy time a few weeks ago …. what with Sooty’s girlfriend and adoptions suddenly seeming to grind to a halt.  We had Sooty to try to keep indoors, the other residents determined that they should be allowed out, plus three rescue cats all of whom wanted their own room .    Breaking point came when the weather warmed up and the seasonally available third single room aka the conservatory became uninhabitable with the door closed as it was too warm.    Despite hours of lying awake thinking through permutations of doors open and closed and who has access to what, the number of different needs within the house simply did not compute.

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niki

Thankfully help arrived in the form of a lovely local foster family for Niki.   Her confidence has rocketed since she went into a cat free home, and she’s loved playing with the human kittens in her foster home.

Molly was made an offer she couldn’t refuse last weekend.   Another lovely cat free home, not far away, with a couple of servants on paw to pander to her every whim.  Go for it Molly!  You’ve had a tough time over recent months ….. claim that rug and the fire as your own.

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As though that wasn’t good enough, Jack met some people last weekend and has called them back for a second interview as he’s hopeful that they may be able to offer him almost as many cuddles as he needs.

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So we unexpectedly had space to offer for another poor soul who needed rescue.  Hard to describe the emotion of looking at a clean and empty bedroom, food (adult & kitten) stacked on the shelves …. just waiting …. wondering who may come next and what story will unfold in the coming weeks.

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the saga of the girlfriend and the cat flap (2)

So having decided we had to keep Sooty in permanently … the saga of Sooty’s girlfriend changes to the saga of the cat flap.

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We’ve had a standard pet porte microchip cat flap since before we started cat rescue and loved it, but dreamed of the day when microchip flaps could offer selective exit as well as entry.  By chance we checked their website recently … and there it was!!!!   A stunning, all singing, all dancing cat flap, that would allow you to set individual programs of in and out for 30 odd cats.  Not only that, it would allow a longer relatch time for our timid Amber, sound a different tone for each chipped cat who approached it, keep records of when each cat went in and out, and had a USB connection so we could easily delete adopted rescue cats from the memory thereby avoiding every filling it to capacity.   Ok, so it didn’t empty the litter trays, do the shopping, and cook dinner,  but it looked good – a real Swiss army knife of a cat flap.

petporte inteligent

Of course it was ridiculously expensive ….. at that point (only a few weeks ago) …… £300+ ……… but then the price started plummeting …… and we picked one up on another website for just over £100.  Sadly when it arrived it was a huge disappointment ……. HUGE being the operative word!   It turned out to be several inches too tall to fit into the door panel in the photo above.  Honey and Amber could have left the house in tandem with Flipper diving over the top of them and there still would have been room.

Thankfully returning it wasn’t an issue, other than we were left with the original dilemma of how to manage Sooty staying home whilst the others went out.  A second look at the Sureflap competition  looked promising.  Initially we’d dismissed it because it seemed that there was no setting for “indoor cats” to be able to get back in if they  happened to get out.  However further investigation revealed a safety mode which allowed this.   It wasn’t all singing and dancing like the pet porte option, but it looked like it could just about hold a tune whilst it shuffled across the kitchen floor.

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We had a bit of a Goldilocks moment when it arrived as this one seemed to be too small!  A bit of careful fitting by local handyman sorted that out.  All we had to do then was get everyone scanned in … ahem .

Honey grumbled a bit but complied, Flipper wriggled and giggled but the job was done, Jango more or less slept through the process.  Sooty got a little confused about being taken to the flap when we’ve spent the last few weeks keeping him away from it … whilst we got a little confused about how to set it for him to be “in only”.   As expected, Amber was the challenge.  Having got hold of Amber only once in the years she’s lived here (a necessary but not to be repeated nightmare to get her chipped), picking her up and pushing her through the flap was not an option.  Sureflap gives you rather longer than Petporte to get them to the flap after pressing the “learn” buttons …. but doesn’t disperse the eager group of cats who would be happy to be “re-learned” if it means they can pick up the treat left out to entice Amber near to the flap.  Finally, smearing the outside of the flap with tuna oil whilst the other cats were indoors proved to be effective.

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Unfortunately that’s still not the end of it – they have to learn how to use it.  Trying to stay calm whilst my annoyance with the girlfriend rises over this.  If only she hadn’t got involved.  In the last 48 hours I’ve been met by a barrage of complaints – it smells different to the old one, it sounds different, it needs a different angle of approach to get your microchip to trigger it to open.  Amber has managed to use it to get out, but is too scared to use it to come in.  Honey seems able to get in, but it won’t pick up her chip when she’s trying to get out.  Sooty is furious that he can’t use it at all.  Jango seems to have lumbered in and out once or twice … he’s more interested in snoozing in the box it was delivered in.   Flipper seems to have got the hang of it,  to the point of being able to manoeuvre a struggling rodent through it this afternoon.

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It’s been a weekend of experimenting with different methods.  Taping the flap open so they can just get used to the feel of it and the different noises it makes (though this means Sooty has to be shut in the bedroom) seems to help.  Having the flap closed whilst serving delicious treats on the other side of it also helps a bit.   Almost as heart breaking as Sooty hammering on the flap wanting to go out, is Amber silent meowing to me on the patio because she wants to come in.  Neither can understand why their little furry worlds have been so cruelly disrupted.    I silently fantasise cruelly disrupting the girlfriend’s world.  Does she have any idea how much stress and distress she’s caused?

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the saga of the girlfriend and the cat flap (1)

To the extent that anything can be regarded as having a clear beginning, this saga began with my holiday last August.   I returned to find that my home loving Sooty was out.  Lets cut short a long story of tears and jet lag, and walking the streets with a torch looking in hedge bottoms for what my worst nightmare ….. and cut to the chase where the wonderful Moggy Maid who had been caring for the gang whilst I was away, came back for an extra shift, and found a very live Sooty in a garden on the next road.

We were one cat short the following day too, and the next ……. and eventually we rumbled that Sooty had a girlfriend in the next street who was feeding him evaporated milk.  Initially, apart from the consequent tummy upsets, it was quite cute and amusing.  He’d spend the day in the garden with his lady friend, then I’d pick him up on the way home from work.

 

Come the colder, darker days it became less funny. The lady for some reason was shutting him in her conservatory and then going off into the house leaving Sooty alone and unable to leave. I’d get home from work, tired out, only to find Sooty was yet again missing and would have to go to collect him, leaving the others resentfully waiting longer for their supper. The lady would often not answer her door, and would never listen to my pleas to not give him evap milk. She’d swear she’d given him nothing, in spite of the creamy white evidence around his mouth, and the er …. well the other evidence in the litter tray when he got home.

Loathe to fall out with neighbours, especially someone whom Sooty regarded as a friend I tried to just get on with it. We tried locking the cat flap and keeping him (and our course everyone else) in in the hope of breaking the habit. That didn’t work – the other residents started to go stir crazy and argue among themselves, and as soon as the cat flap was open Sooty was off for his evap!

I did wonder if he was really unhappy at home and this was his way of telling me. However each evening he seemed happy to see me and purred all the way home whether that was in the car or just on my shoulder being carried.

was he unhappy with his housemates?

Frustration turned to worry and serious annoyance as Sooty’s health deteriorated and the girlfriend continued to ignore my pleas to not encourage him to spend time at her house. Detailed descriptions of his health problems and consequent vet bills were simply lost on her. Suggestions that she adopt one of our rescue cats instead were refused … as she didn’t want a cat!!!!!

The issue spread into the rest of the neighbourhood when my immediate neighbours caught the girlfriend peering through my windows and trying to entice Sooty away with her whilst I was at work.  I wondered if they were exaggerating things a bit until the day when I was home but the car wasn’t on the drive and I witnessed this first hand!   My friend and her daughter, who live midway between our house and the girlfriend’s got involved in intercepting their liaisons and returning Sooty to post him through the cat flap when I was out at work.

We hit crisis point when this friend came round and said that they’d driven down their road and found Sooty lying in the road outside the girlfriend’s house … just having a nap!!  Thank goodness it was them and they drive slowly and are cat-aware.   Her daughter (our little helper who child proofs our kittens for us)  remembered that Sooty was deaf so wouldn’t hear the car, and got out and scooped him up and they drove him home.

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I don’t like to curtail his freedom.  Being deaf and black is a risk going out, but on balance we decided to take it in the past.  Until the girlfriend got involved, Sooty would just have a little potter around his garden and then come in and snooze happily all day.  I’m so cross that she’s spoiled this for him, put him at risk, caused me so much stress and make the lives of our other cats so much more difficult over recent months, and completely refused to listen to what I’m saying about the problem.

What of the cat flap you might ask …… if you read the title and are still valiantly reading …….. that’s coming in episode 2

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